Something to think about

November 30, 2008 at 7:33 am (Inspirational, Life) (, , )

The paradox of our time in history is that we have taller buildings, but shorter tempers; wider freeways, but narrower viewpoints; we spend more, but have less; we buy more, but enjoy it less.

We have bigger houses and smaller families; more conveniences, but less time; we have more degrees, but less sense; more knowledge, but less judgment; more experts, but more problems; more medicine, but less wellness.

We drink too much, smoke too much, spend too recklessly, laugh too little, drive too fast, get too angry too quickly, stay up too late, get up too tired, read too seldom, watch TV too much, and pray too seldom.

We have multiplied our possessions, but reduced our values. We talk too much, love too seldom, and hate too often. We’ve learned how to make a living, but not a life; We’ve added years to life, not life to years.

We’ve been all the way to the moon and back, but have trouble crossing the street to meet the new neighbor. We’ve conquered outer space, but not inner space; We’ve done larger things, but not better things; We’ve cleaned up the air, but polluted the soul; we’ve split the atom, but not our prejudice; we write more, but learn less; we plan more, but accomplish less. We’ve learned to rush, but not to wait; We have higher incomes, but lower morals; We have more food, but less appeasement; We build more computers to hold more information to produce more copies than ever, but have less communication; We’ve become long on quantity, but short on quality.

These are the times of fast foods and slow digestion; tall men, and short character; steep profits, and shallow relationships. These are the times of world peace, but domestic warfare; more leisure, but less fun; more kinds of food, but less nutrition.

These are days of two incomes, but more divorce; of fancier houses, but broken homes. These are days of quick trips, disposable diapers, throw away morality, one-night stands, overweight bodies, and pills that do everything from cheer to quiet, to kill.

It is a time when there is much in the show window and nothing in the stockroom; a time when technology can bring this letter to you, and a time when you can choose either to make a difference, or just turn the page…

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Tagalog Romantic Quotes

November 23, 2008 at 2:44 am (Inspirational, Life, Love) (, , , )

Ang pag-ibig ay parangutot . Kahit anong gawin mo ay napakahirap itago at pag-ibinuga mo ang kimkim na damdamin, maamoy ng lahat hindi ka man umamin. “
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mnsn trip ktng inisin
asarin
pikunin..
tpos ako
ttwa lng
suss!
wg ka mg-alala
praan ko lng un pra sbhn n..
ang saya ko kc
anjan ka…Ü
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Ikaw ang
mahal ko,
ikaw ang
mahal kong,
tunay na tunay.
Ang laging
panaginip ko’y
tanging ikaw.
Ngunit ang totoo’y
madalas mong
mapag-alinlanganan
ang puso kong
tapat sa
pagsintang
di mo alam
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Galing ni god no? Alam nya kung saan magiging masaya ang mga tao…Kung saan sila pwede magmahal at mahalin ng totoo…Kung saan yung langit dito sa mundo… Kaya pala…Nilagay nya ko malapit sa yo
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Our closeness means a lot to me. You laugh, I laugh. You cry, I cry. You jump out of the window, I won’t. Instead, I’ll catch you and say, “*** ka! Walang iwanan, diba?”

Pwedeng pahiram ng cell? Tatawag kasi ako sa heaven. Irereport ko na nakita ko na yung nawawala nilang angel. Pero teka, ok ka lang ba? Baka kasi nasaktan ka nung nahulog ka.

There are times I want to be mad. There are times I want to give you up. There are times I want to cry. But no matter how many times I think about that, I always end up saying, “Mahal na mahal ko talaga si Ace, eh!”

Whenever I make your phone beep, I know that at one point you’ve uttered “si Ace lang pala” and I couldn’t blame you for that. But at any rate, I just want you to know that this “Ace lang” cares for you so much.

Remember nung nagwish ka sa falling star na sana may magmahal sayo ng lubos? The next day, sabi mo sakin di ka na naniniwala sa falling star. Kung alam mo lang, love na kita bago ka pa nagwish.

Wag mong isiping nag-iisa ka. Para saan pa ko? Wag mong isiping malungkot ka. Para saan pa ang mga ngiti ko? Pag inisip mo na wala nang nagmamahal sayo, para mo na ring sinabing wala nang Ace dito sa mundo!

Pag nagmahal ako, gusto ko yung kagaya mo. Pag umibig ako, gusto ko yung katulad mo. Pero paano kung wala nang kagaya mo? Wala nang katulad mo? Hindi ba pwedeng ikaw na lang ang mahalin at ibigin ko?

Sa buhay ko, meron akong minahal, merong minamahal at siguro may mamahalin pa. Alam mo kung saan ka dun? Ikaw yung tipong binabalik-balikan.

Pag wala ka na, di na ako iiyak. Pag wala ka na, di na ako malulungkot. Pag wala ka na, di na ako matatakot. Pag wala ka na, di na ako magmumukhang tanga. Alam mo kung bakit? Kasi wala na rin ako.

Tumingin ako sa langit, nakita kita. Binuksan ko ang radyo, narinig kita. Naghanap ako ng matatambayan, nakasama kita. Nanood ako ng TV, ikaw ang bida. Baliw na ba ko? O miss lang kita?

Someone once asked me if I really love you. I just kept quiet, closed my eyes, smiled, opened my eyes and

Sometimes I feel as if I don’t have any reason to live. I just want to disappear, escape and hide from the world. But when I think of you, I find myself saying, “Buti na lang buhay ako.”

Bakit ba ganon? Pare-pareho sila. Lahat iniwan ako, lahat sinaktan ako. Pero bakit ganon? Gusto ko pa ring magmahal? Alam mo kung bakit? Kasi alam kong darating ka.

If you were here beside me, I would stare at your face, look into your eyes, hold your hand very tight and kiss you. Then as I look at your face, I would wish to God na sana akin ka na lang.

Si Ace? Ok lang! Makulit, moody, minsan matigas ang ulo, pasaway. Mabait? Hmm, oo. Pero pag nawala yan, sus! Mamamatay ako!

There are a lot of people asking what made me fall for you, I just smiled. You know why? Well, why would I tell them? They might just fall for you the way I did. Selfish na kung selfish, akin ka lang.

Sabi nila wag daw kitang sasaktan. Sabi nila mahalin daw kita ng lubusan. Alam kong di ko kaya pero gagawin ko. Di dahil tama, di dahil nararapat, di dahil sabi ng iba. Simple lang. Dahil mahal naman talaga kita.

Sa dami ng mga simpleng bagay na dumaan at nawala sa buhay ko, ikaw ay ang simpleng bagay na ayokong palampasin dahil sa dahilang ikaw lang ang simpleng bagay na kumumpleto sakin.

If I only have one hour left to live and I’m with you that day, I’ll lay my head unto your shoulder as I feel the breeze touch my skin and say, “Pasandal lang po muna, ha? Matagal po akong mawawala, eh.”

I can’t blame you if one day you’ll walk out of my life. However, expect me to give up everything just to keep you in sight. If I fail, please give me a chance to say, “Gagawin ko lahat wag ka lang umalis.”

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Heaven and Hell

November 19, 2008 at 5:52 am (Inspirational, Life) (, , , , , )

While walking down the street one day a Senator is tragically hit by a truck and dies.

His soul arrives in heaven and is met by St. Peter at the entrance.

‘Welcome to heaven,’ says St. Peter. ‘Before you settle in, it seems there is a problem.

We seldom see a high official around these parts, you see, so we’re not sure what to do with you.’

‘No problem, just let me in,’ says the senator.

‘Well, I’d like to, but I have orders from higher up. What we’ll do is have you spend one day in hell and one in heaven.

Then you can choose where to spend eternity.’

‘Really, I’ve made up my mind. I want to be in heaven,’ says the senator.

‘I’m sorry, but we have our rules.’

And with that, St. Peter escorts him to the elevator and he goes down, down, down to hell.

The doors open and he finds himself in the middle of a green golf course.

In the distance is a clubhouse and standing in front of it are all his friends and other politicians who had worked with him.

Everyone is very happy and in evening dress. They run to greet him, shake his hand, and reminisce about the good times they had while getting rich at the expense of the people.

They play a friendly game of golf and then dine on lobster, caviar and champagne.

Also present is the devil, who really is a very friendly guy who has a good time dancing and telling jokes.

They are having such a good time that before he realizes it, it is time to go.

Everyone gives him a hearty farewell and waves while the elevator rises.

The elevator goes up, up, up and the door reopens on heaven where St. Peter is waiting for him.

‘Now it’s time to visit heaven.’

So, 24 hours pass with the senator joining a group of contented souls moving from cloud to cloud, playing the harp and singing.

They have a good time and, before he realizes it, the 24 hours have gone by and St. Peter returns.

‘Well, then, you’ve spent a day in hell and another in heaven. Now choose your eternity.’

The senator reflects for a minute, then answers: ‘Well, I would never have said it before, I mean heaven has been delightful, but I think I would be better off in hell.’

So St. Peter escorts him to the elevator and he goes down, down, down to hell.

Now the doors of the elevator open and he’s in the middle of a barren land covered with waste and garbage.

He sees all his friends, dressed in rags, picking up the trash and putting it in black bags as more trash falls from above…

The devil comes over to him and puts his arm around his shoulder. ‘I don’t understand,’ stammers the senator.

‘Yesterday I was here and there was a golf course and clubhouse, and we ate lobster and caviar, drank champagne, and danced and had a great time. Now there’s just a wasteland full of garbage and my friends look miserable. What happened?’

The devil looks at him, smiles and says…….

‘Yesterday we were campaigning. Today you voted.’

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Two choices

November 17, 2008 at 11:43 am (Inspirational, Life) (, , )

Jerry was the kind of guy you love to hate. He was always in a good mood and always had something positive to say. When someone would ask him how he was doing, he would reply, “If I were any better, I would be twins!”

He was a unique manager because he had several waiters who had followed him around from restaurant to restaurant. The reason the waiters followed Jerry was because of his attitude. He was a natural motivator. If an employee was having a bad day, Jerry was there telling the employee how to look on the positive side of the situation.

Seeing this style really made me curious, so one day I went up to Jerry and asked him, “I don’t get it! You can’t be a positive person all of the time. How do you do it?” Jerry replied, “Each morning I wake up and say to myself, Jerry, you have two choices today. You can choose to be in a good mood or you can choose to be in a bad mood. I choose to be in a good mood. Each time something bad happens, I can choose to be a victim or I can choose to learn from it. I choose to learn from it. Every time someone comes to me complaining, I can choose to accept their complaining or I can point out the positive side of life. I choose the positive side of life.”

“Yeah, right, it’s not that easy,” I protested. “Yes it is,” Jerry said. “Life is all about choices. When you cut away all the junk, every situation is a choice. You choose how you react to situations. You choose how people will affect your mood. You choose to be in a good mood or bad mood. The bottom line: It’s your choice how you live life.” I reflected on what Jerry said. Soon thereafter, I left the restaurant industry to start my own business. We lost touch, but often thought about him when I made a choice about life instead of reacting to it.

Several years later, I heard that Jerry did something you are never supposed to do in a restaurant business. He left the back door open one morning and was held up at gun point by three armed robbers. While trying to open the safe, his hand, shaking from nervousness, slipped off the combination. The robbers panicked and shot him. Luckily, Jerry was found relatively quickly and rushed to the local trauma centre. After 18 hours of surgery and weeks of intensive care, Jerry was released from the hospital with fragments of the bullets still in his body.

I saw Jerry about six months after the accident. When I asked him how he was, he said, “If I were any better, I’d be twins. Wanna see my scars?” I declined to see his wounds, but did ask him what had gone through his mind as the robbery took place. “The first thing that went through my mind was that I should have locked the back door,” Jerry replied. “Then, as I lay on the floor, I remembered that I had two choices: I could choose to live, or I could choose to die. I chose to live. “Weren’t you scared? Did you lose consciousness?” I asked. Jerry continued, “The paramedics were great. They kept telling me I was going to be fine. But when they wheeled me into the emergency room and I saw the expressions on the faces of the doctors and nurses, I got really scared. In their eyes, I read, ‘He’s a dead man.” I knew I needed to take action.” “What did you do?” I asked. “Well, there was a big, burly nurse shouting questions at me,” said Jerry. “She asked if I was allergic to anything. ‘Yes,’ I replied. The doctors and nurses stopped working as they waited for my reply. I took a deep breath and yelled, ‘Bullets!’ Over their laughter, I told them, “I am choosing to live. Operate on me as if I am alive, not dead.” Jerry lived thanks to the skill of his doctors, but also because of his amazing attitude. I learned from him that every day we have the choice to live fully.

Attitude, after all, is everything.

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Unconditional Love

November 14, 2008 at 7:32 pm (Family, Inspirational, Life, Love) (, , , , )

I got this from my friend through email. As I read the article, I realized that it is true. When you love someone, you will also accept and embrace his/her flaws. If you can love someone beyond his imperfections, that means you are loving that person unconditionally.

I would like to share the article and I hope it could also touch your heart as it touches mine..

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You may be familiar with the term unconditional love, but have you learned to practice this powerful concept? Unconditional love is a transformational gift that empowers us and those whom we love to become the best that we can be. It is fundamental to our happiness and wellbeing to learn how to love ourselves and others unconditionally.

Unconditional love is more than a powerful concept it is has the genuine power to heal both ourselves and people around us. When we love someone unconditionally we accept them with all of their flaws and weaknesses and transform those things within them which may be hard for them to accept into things they may more easily accept and deal with. When we accept ourselves for who we are with all our flaws then we empower ourselves to change and improve ourselves. Unconditional love tells another person that those things within themselves which they find fault with are ok, that they can accept those things about themselves and not feel badly about themselves or punish themselves for those things. And of course, when we love ourselves unconditionally we receive the same message and empower ourselves to grow and become better people.

Unfortunately it is part of the nature of our human condition to use our love as a manipulative tool. We may think we are trying to change something about someone we love for the better by placing conditions on our love, but this simply isn’t true. By making our love for either ourselves or for others conditional we limit our love and effectively say we do not love ourselves or we do not love others in regard to whatever conditions we have defined.

Withdrawing our love from ourselves and from others can only ever harm both the person who feels less loved and the person who limits their love. A person who feels unloved by us may feel less love for themselves by finding fault with themselves for which they then withhold their own love of themselves doing themselves more harm. Or a person who has been denied love based on conditions may resent the limits of the love they have received and become angry or bitter toward someone who otherwise might love them. So conditional love is very harmful, it is not really love at all because it has the power to do so much harm.

We should never place limits or conditions on our love for anyone else, including ourselves. It is an injustice to love anyone, including ourselves, in any conditional manner. We should always look within ourselves and other people for those places where we feel our love may be constrained by any judgment or criticism and let go of that judgment or criticism and accept ourselves and everyone else for who we are now. When we limit our love and predicate the full effulgence of our love on conditions which must first be met we are being selfish and manipulative. Love can never arise from selfish or manipulative behavior it can only be spoiled by these.

It may seem hard to love other people unconditionally. We may feel someone we otherwise might love unconditionally has a particular character trait which we feel is repulsive and we may want them to change that in order to make themselves worthy of our love. That is such a selfish ego game. Who are we to decide for others how they should be? It may be the case that someone who cares for us may discover for themselves what they may want to change about themselves which may make it easier for us to love them but they must do that of their own accord in their own good time and not be pushed to change or be manipulated to change because this pushing manipulative behavior is selfish and aggressive and may cause unpleasant reactions in which the person we feel we might otherwise love resents us and becomes angry with us.

So whenever we come across any limits we may feel in our loving regard for others or for ourselves we should change ourselves in response to those limits and learn to accept and to love in response to such feelings without limits or conditions. Love is not about putting ourselves ahead of everyone else, but when we love someone in a conditional manner that is exactly what we are doing; we are putting what we want ahead of truly loving someone.

We impoverish our lives by the limits which we place on our love. Worse, we impoverish the lives of others whom we should love unconditionally. We cannot afford this sort of poverty of our spirits. It demeans us, making less of us in our own eyes as well as in the eyes of others. Only by embracing ourselves and everyone we meet with our full effulgent and unconditional love can we empower ourselves to love and to heal ourselves and to love and help heal those around us whoever they may be.

We must let go of all of our terms and conditions and judgments and criticism and accept the world as it is and accept everyone in the world as they are. Acceptance is an incredibly powerful fulcrum which enables our love to be a lever that moves the world. We may move the world with our love in every moment, and the world will love us all back the more in return.

When we empower ourselves to be unconditionally loving to everyone we meet, including ourselves we will have never regret it; instead we will make ourselves and everyone we meet happier, healthier more loving human beings.

~Greg Gourdian~

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More important than presents

November 7, 2008 at 5:31 pm (Family, Inspirational, Life, Love) (, , , , )

A man going abroad to work leaves his fiancee crying. “Don’t worry, I will write you everyday,” he said. For years he did write her. But since he was happy with his job, he had no immediate plans of going home. One day, he received a wedding invitation. His girl friend was scheduled to be married. To whom? To the mailman bringing regularly the letters of her boy friend! Indeed, distance does make hearts flounder.

The poor boyfriend surely explained, “What went wrong? I sent her letters, chocolates, and flowers.” When relationships go wrong, the list of things given and done for the person usually crops up. We say, “I have given you this and that…I have done these things for you.” It seems that love is simply proven by the bestowal of gifts and favors.

But while presents are important, love demands what is basic: presence of the beloved. I have observed for instance, the orchids of my mother. When she’s away for a long time, they are unhealthy and many of them wither. But when she is around, they bloom with beautiful flowers. My mother does nothing exceptional. She just spends much time talking and caressing them.

I guess persons all the more require a caring presence. Love is fundamentally a commitment to a person. We may be committed to our business, job, hobby, sports and clubs, but strictly speaking, they cannot love us back. Only a person can love us in return, and for that matter the highest commitment as human beings is spending time with those persons we love. And since people need affection and nourishment, material things can only help up to a certain degree in fostering love. But it can never replace the greatest gift of presence.

Martha was busy with her job. She believed she had to work harder because she loves her father who is sick of cancer. She has to provide for his expensive medicines. Her brothers and sisters meanwhile stayed with their father most of the time. They bathed him, sang for him, spoon-fed him or simply kept him company.

One day Martha was hurt. She overheard her father telling her mother, “All our children love me except Martha.” “How can this be?” Martha thought. “Am I not the one killing myself in my work to have money to buy for his medicines? My brothers and sisters do not even provide their share in the expenses as much as I do.”

One night, as Martha was as usual late in going home, she peeped for the first time in the room where her father was lying. She noticed that her father was still awake. She decided to come close at his bedside. Her father held her hands and said, “I miss you. I don’t have much time. Stay with me.” And she stayed with her father holding his hand the whole night.

The next morning Martha said to everybody, “I have taken a leave of absence. I would like to be with father. I will bathe him and sing for him from now on.” Her father had a beautiful smile. He knew this time Martha loves him.

* As children, we need the assuring presence of our loved ones. Adult people need no less. *

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The lesson learned

November 7, 2008 at 2:35 am (Inspirational, Life) (, , )

One day, the father of a very wealthy family took his son on a trip to the country with the express purpose of showing him how poor people live.

They spent a couple of days and nights on the farm of what would be considered a very poor family.

On their return from their trip, the father asked his son, “How was the trip?”

“It was great, Dad.”

“Did you see how poor people live?” the father asked.

“Oh yeah,” said the son.

“So, tell me, what did you learn from the trip?” asked the father.

The son answered: “I saw that we have one dog and they had four. We have a pool that reaches to the middle of our garden and they have a creek that has no end. We have imported lanterns in our garden and they have the stars at night. Our patio reaches to the front yard and they have the whole horizon.

“We have a small piece of land to live on and they have fields that go beyond our sight.

“We have servants who serve us, but they serve others. We buy our food, but they grow theirs.

“We have walls around our property to protect us, they have friends to protect them.”

The boy’s father was speechless.

Then his son added, “Thanks Dad for showing me how poor we are.”

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Sad Love quotes

November 3, 2008 at 11:37 am (Love, Personal) (, , , )

Sometimes you love something so much that it hurts to leave it, but you must. Sometimes it hurts too much to hold on to that thing you love. And sometimes you let go of what you love because it hurts, but then just sometimes… you get it back and live happily ever after.

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Why do people have to lose things to find out what they really mean?

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When you are in love and you get hurt, it’s like a cut… it will heal, but there will always be a scar.

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May God put a spell on you… so you won’t forget me.

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Whenever I cried he would always make me feel like he would change the world if he could so it couldn’t hurt me anymore. But now I’m crying and he’s not here

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You can close your eyes to things you don’t want to see, but you can’t close your heart to things you don’t want to feel.

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When I see you smile and know that it is not for me, that is when I will miss you the most.

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When you said forever, you meant a few months. When I said forever, I meant every day until I died. When you said always, you meant until you couldn’t handle it anymore. When I said always, I meant until time ended. When you said you loved me, you meant I was no different from any other girl. When I said I loved you, I meant I had never felt what I felt for you.

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was never one to patiently pick up broken fragments and glue them together again and tell myself that the mended whole was as good as new. What is broken is broken — and I’d rather remember it as it was at its best than mend it and see the broken places as long as I lived. unknown sad love quotes

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With you my heart will always stay. With you my thoughts will be every day. You remain to be the one that I regret letting get away. Why didn’t I say what I needed to say? You are the one I will always use my wishes on. You are the one I will always wish was never gone. I’ll constantly wonder what went wrong. I’ll forever think of what I could’ve did that was never done.

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I don’t miss him, I miss who I thought he was

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I miss you a little, I guess you could say, a little too much, a little too often, and a little more each day

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There’s this place in me where your finger prints still rest… your kisses still linger and your whispers softly echo… It’s the place where a part of you will forever be a part of me

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A teardrop is insignificant in a pool of water, but it can touch the soul as it runs down someone’s face.

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I wish I had the guts to walk away and forget about what we had. But, I can’t because I know you won’t come after me, and I guess that’s what hurts the most.

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You hurt me once… shame on you. You hurt me twice… shame on me.

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True love? I used to believe it existed, but when you’ve had your heart torn out and thrown on the floor, you just don’t care anymore. . Ask me why I keep on loving

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when It’s clear that you don’t feel the same way for me… the problem is that as much as I can’t force you to love me, I can’t force myself to stop loving you.

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. When you remember how hard it is to change yourself, you begin to understand what little chance we have of changing others.

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Someone can walk into your life and it is not until after they walk out that you realize that they were even there

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Love can tear you apart… it can kill you. But if you’re lucky, it can put you back together.

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It hurts to see you walk away. For admit it or not, you were an important part of my life and the time we shared will forever be a part of me. So even though I realize that it was never meant to be, still, it hurts.

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You have been the treasure in my hand. You have been the one who always stood beside me. So unaware, I foolishly believed that you would always be there. But then there will come a day, when I will turn my head and you will slip away.

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I hate you…and then I love you…it’s like I want to throw you off a cliff….then rush to the bottom to catch you

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For all sad words of tongue and pen, the saddest are those “it might have been

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I’ve seen fire and I’ve seen rain. I’ve seen sunny days that I thought would never end. I’ve seen lonely times when I could not find a friend, but I always thought that I’d see you again.

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Oh, I shouldn’t care or wonder where and how you are. But I can’t hide this hurt inside my broken heart. I’m fighting back emotions that I’ve never fought before, ‘cause I’m not supposed to love you anymore.

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It hurts the most when you can actually feel your heart breaking.

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I can’t cry hard enough for you to hear me.

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The tears I wish to wipe away, will run unchecked for another day. Alas, that is the price I pay.

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No, I can’t erase the wrong I’ve done but I hope you can give me another chance. Because if you were me, you would want the same and I’d give that chance to you.

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You love to hate the one who loves the one you hate to love.

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Even if my heart should call out your name in the rain. Even if these arms should want to embrace you again. And even if I’m all cried out and no longer in pain… I’ll never fall in love that way again.

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Once upon a time I was falling in love, but now I’m only falling apart. – “Total Eclipse of the Heart

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I could fill a thousand pages telling you how I felt and still you would not understand. So now I leave without a sound, except that of my heart shattering as it hits the ground.

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We are never so defenseless against suffering as when we love. .

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The ones that you love the most are usually the ones that hurt you the most.

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Life’s Quote

November 3, 2008 at 1:06 am (Inspirational, Life, Love, Personal) (, , , )

1. When the door of happiness closes, another opens, but often times we look so long at the closed door that we don’t see the one which has been opened for us.
2. Dream what you want to dream; go where you want to go; be what you want to be, because you have only one life and one chance to do all the things you want to do.
3. Always put yourself in others’ shoes. If you feel that it hurts you, it probably hurts the other person, too.
4. The happiest of people don’t necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the most of everything that comes along their way.
5. Happiness lives for those who cry, those who hurt, those who have searched, and those who have tried, for only they can appreciate the importance of people who have touched their lives.
6. The brightest future will always be based on a forgotten past, you can’t go on well in life until you let go of your past failures and heartaches.
7. When you think the world has turned its back on you, take a look: you most likely turned your back on the world.
8. What’s meant to be will always find a way and if ever you’ve found that way, do something to make it happen, never let go ’cause not all that’s meant to be will always turn into reality.
9. If you have a great friend, take the time to let them know that they are great.
10. Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don’t matter and those who matter don’t mind.
11. Life holds no promises to what will come our way. It makes no guarantee as to what we will have. It just gives us time to make choices and take chances.
12. Anyone can give up, it’s the easiest thing in the world to do. But to hold it together when everyone else would understand if you fell apart, that’s true strength.
13. Somewhere there is someone that dreams of your smile, and finds in your presence that life is worthwhile, so when you are lonely remember it’s true, someone somewhere is thinking of you.
14. Life is short, don’t waste time worrying about what people think of you. Hold on to the ones that care, in the end they will be the only ones there.
15. We must be willing to get rid of the life we’ve planned, so as to have the life that is waiting for us.
16. Remember that great love and great achievements involve great risk.
17. Remember: Whatever happens, happens for a reason.
18. Life isn’t about waiting for the storm to pass. It’s about learning to dance in the rain.
19. Take into account that great love and great achievements involve great risk.
20. When you lose, don’t lose the lesson.
21. Follow the three Rs: *Respect for self *Respect for others and *Responsibility for all your actions.
22. Remember that not getting what you want is sometimes a wonderful stroke of luck.
23. Learn the rules so you know how to break them properly.
24. Don’t let a little dispute injure a great friendship.
25. When you realize you’ve made a mistake, take immediate steps to correct it.
26. Open your arms to change, but don’t let go of your values.
27. Remember that silence is sometimes the best answer.
28. Live a good, honourable life. Then when you get older and think back, you’ll be able to enjoy it a second time.
29. A loving atmosphere in your home is the foundation for your life.
30. In disagreements with loved ones, deal only with the current situation. Don’t bring up the past.
31. Share your knowledge. It’s a way to achieve immortality.
32. Remember that the best relationship is one in which your love for each other exceeds your need for each other.
33. Judge your success by what you had to give up in order to get it.
34. It’s better to declare the truth and be rejected than to withhold it just to be accepted. -Unknown
35. A real leader faces the music even when he doesn’t like the tune. -Nelson Mandela
36. People who drink to drown their sorrows should be told that sorrow knows how to swim. -Woody Allen
37. Being defeated is often a temporary condition. Giving up is what makes it permanent. -Marilyn Vas Savant
38. People won’t remember what you did. People won’t remember what you said. But, people will remember how you made them feel. -Neale Donald Waisch
39. The real winner in life are the people who look at every situation with an expectation that they can make it work or make it better. -Barabara Pletcher
40. When life knocks you down, try to land on your back. Because if you can look up, you can get up. -Les Brown
41. It is not what life takes away from you that counts. It’s what you make of what is left with you. -Hubert Humphrey
42. The best thing about the future is that it only comes one day at a time. -Abraham Lincoln
43. Every exit is an entry somewhere else. -Tom Stoppard
44. Don’t complain about growing old – many many people do not have that privilege. -Earl Warren
45. I would rather have a mind opened by wonder than one closed by belief. -Gerry Spence
46. If we are incapable of finding peace in ourselves, it is pointless to search elsewhere. -Francois De La Rochefoucauld
47. Half our mistakes in life arise from feeling when we ought to think, and thinking when we ought to feel. -John Collins
48. Never mistake knowledge for wisdom. One helps you make a living; the other helps you make a life. -Sandra Carey
49. The first step to getting the things you want out of life is this: Decide what you want. -Ben Stein
50. Life is only worth living once you’ve found someone worth dying for.
51. You can clutch the past so tightly to your chest that it leaves your arms too full to embrace the present. -Jan Glidewell
52. Life is a music playlist. But you cannot pause, skip, or repeat any of it. So no matter the song, keep on dancing to the beat, because eventually it will turn into something amazing.

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Manila City Hall Aerial Shot

November 1, 2008 at 12:19 am (Inspirational, Life) (, , , , )

Notice the aerial shot of Manila City Hall. It is of the same shape of a coffin. Creepy isn’t it?

When I was a child, I have been visiting this building to see my mom’s aunt who was the Clerk of Court of Manila and at the same time Chief Officio Sheriff. I was not aware of any aerial shot of this building until last night I saw it on T.V. Scared as I was, I didn’t bother to take a look at it immediately on T.V. But curiosity hit me, I still googled it and alas, I saw it. I wonder if the architects and engineers are aware of it.

Psychic feels strong presence in each level. Hmm creepy isn’t it.

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Beauty Tips

November 1, 2008 at 12:00 am (Inspirational, Life, Personal) (, , , )

By Audrey Hepburn

For attractive lips, speak words of kindness.

For lovely eyes, seek out the good in people.

For a slim figure, share your food with the hungry.

For beautiful hair, let a child run his or her fingers through it once a day.

For poise, walk with the knowledge you’ll never walk alone.
People, even more than things, have to be restored, renewed, revived, reclaimed, and redeemed; never throw out anybody.

Remember, if you ever need a helping hand, you’ll find one at the end of your arm.

As you grow older, you will discover that you have two hands, one for helping yourself, the other for helping others.

The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the
figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair.
The beauty of a woman must be seen from in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart, the place where love resides.

The beauty of a woman is not in a facial mole, but true beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul. It is the caring that she lovingly gives, the passion that she shows. And the beauty of a woman with passing years only grows!

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