How can I tell her?
She knows when i’m lonesome
She cries when i’m sad
She’s up in the good time
She’s down in the bed
Whenever i’m discouraged
She knows just what to do
But girl …
She doesn’t know about you
I can tell her my troubles
She makes them all seem right
I can make up excuses
Not to hold her at night
We can talk of tomorrow
I’ll tell her things that I wanna do
But girl …
How can I tell her about you
* How can I tell her about you
Girl please tell me what to do
Everything seems right
Whenever I’m with you
So girl won’t you tell me
How to tell her about you
Oh …
How can I tell her I don’t miss her
Whenever I’m away
How can I say it’s you I think of
Every single night and day
But when is it easy
To tell someone the truth
Oh girl
Help me tell her about you
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Love.. A chance or a choice?
When we meet the right person to love when we’re at the right place at the right time, that’s chance. When you meet someone you’re attracted to, that’s not a choice. That’s chance. Being caught up in a moment (and there’s a lot of couples who get together because of this) is not a choice. That’s also a chance.
The difference is what happens afterwards. When will you take that infatuation, that crush, that
mind-blowing attraction to the next level? That’s when all sanity goes back, you sit down and contemplate whether you want to make this into a concrete relationship or just a fling.
If you decide to love a person, even with his faults, that’s not a chance. That’s choice. When you choose to be with a person, no matter what, that’s choice. Even if you know there are many people out there who are more attractive, smarter, and richer than your mate, and yet, you decide to love your mate just the same, that’s choice. Infatuation, crushes, attraction comes to us by chance. But true love that lasts is truly a choice.
A choice that we make.
Regarding soul mates, there’s a beautiful movie quote that I believe is so true about this:
Fate brings you together, but it’s still up to you to make it happen.
I do believe that soul mates do exist. That there is truly someone made for you. But it’s still up to you to make the choice if you’re going to do something about it or not. We may meet our soul mates by chance, but loving and staying with our soul mates is still a matter of choice we have to make.
We came to the world not by finding someone perfect to love. BUT to learn how to love an imperfect person perfectly…”
Beautiful ain’t it? Doesn’t it gives us something to ponder about? Whether we end up with our present loves through love, chance or choice? If it was the right chance, was it the right choice to make?
A lovely message
As you grow up, you will learn that even the one person that wasn’t supposed to ever let you down probably will. You will have your heart broken probably more than once and it’s harder every time. You’ll break hearts
too, so remember how it felt when yours was broken. You’ll fight with your best friend. You’ll blame a new love for things an old one did. You’ll cry because time is passing too fast, and you’ll eventually lose someone you love. So take too many pictures, laugh too much, and love like you’ve never been hurt because every sixty seconds you spend upset is a minute of happiness you’ll never get back. Don’t be afraid that your life will end, be afraid that it will never begin.
