May 13, 2008
For the brokenhearted
Posted by equilibrium2008 under Inspirational, Life, Love, Personal | Tags: heartbreak, Life, Love, quotes, tips & advice, women |
- Your ex-love gave her wedding invitation to you personally when suddenly a tear rolled down from your eyes. She wiped it immediately and said, “You’re the one I want to be with… but you didn’t fight for me.”
- Up to where can you prove your love for someone? What will you do if that someone asks you, “Do you really love me?” Then tells you, “If yes, then set me free.”
- “Time will come, you’ll get mad at me. Time will come, you’ll ask me why I left you. But when that time comes, this is all I have to say, “It’s not that I left you, it’s because you let me go.”
- It’s hard to realize and to accept when the one you love has to go… it hurts but you say, “I can survive this.” But tears fall ’cause what you really mean is… “Oh God, what’s gonna happen to me?”
- “When I die, there’s just one thing I ask… I hope you’re there crying for me. But on the other hand, never mind. Why? Coz I don’t wanna see you cry, on the arms of someone else.”
- “I wish I never met him. I wish I didn’t trust and hope too much. I wish I didn’t put myself up just to get hurt. But when I remember how much he made me happy, I go back to being stupid.”
- “I was first hurt by someone I really love. I didn’t want to give up, even if it hurts. But one day… I did. Why? Because I got so tired and exhausted. I realized how hard it is to love someone who’s not meant for you.”
- “I fought for you because I love you. I didn’t give up on you even though it was difficult. But when you said to me, “Sorry, I’m tired,” my heart was shattered. Not because I saw everything I worked for go down the drain, but because you left me fighting alone.”
- Letting go doesn’t always mean, “It’s over.” Breaking up would not mean, “I’ve had enough.” Instead, it’s as good as saying, “I don’t want to see you sad anymore, go on, you deserve someone better.”
- “I feel sad when I don’t get to see you. I get hurt each time you ignore me. I’m jealous when I see you with somebody else. Gosh! I want to keep you all to myself. But then I realized… I don’t have the right. Coz you’re not mine.”
- “Sometimes, even though you already love someone, it’s still possible to fall in love with somebody else. If that happens to you, and you’re forced to choose… follow your heart and choose the person who you’ll be happy with. Even if it’s not me, as long as you’re happy.”
- “I loved you though I know it’s wrong. I waited for you for so long. I gave you my all until there’s nothing left for myself. I did everything for you. But is it enough for you to love me? Or is it enough for me finally give up?”
- “I got tired of waiting for you… I don’t wanna get hurt anymore. So I’m gonna stop hoping and I’ll try to move on… but I’ll walk away slowly… real slow… so if by any chance you wanna stop me, you can still catch up.”
- I’ve done the bravest thing in my life. I let go of someone I love so much. But as I did the bravest thing, I never felt weaker. All I did was cry and wish that, “hope I was never that brave.”
- Loving someone can sometimes be exhausting. No matter how much you love a person, time will come when you have to give that person up, not because you don’t love him anymore, but because you’re hurting too much coz he can’t take care of you.
- The world can be so damn confusing. You wait for the one you love. The one you don’t love, waits for you. But the saddest thing of all… you love him, he loves you, but fate doesn’t want you to be together.
- Did you ever love someone but you had to let them go, you thought they don’t love you, never cared. One day, you see that person again, already with a kid. You ask them, what’s the name of the kid, they smiled and said, “Same as yours.”
- When you walked by, I told my friend, “I loved that guy.” My friend asked me, “So why did you let him go?” I answered, “If he were MINE, do you think I’ll ever let him go?”
- When I was a child, I wanted to grow up and fall in love. Now that I’ve grown up and falling, how I wish I was still a child… coz it’s easier to heal a broken knee than a broken heart!
- People say that love is the best gift anyone could give and have… my heart was crushed and I asked myself: “isn’t it tragic when I’ve got so much love to give, yet no one seems to want it?”
- Sometimes there would come a time when we have to stop loving someone. Why? Not because the person started hating us, but because we ran out of reasons to fight for what we feel.
- “Teach me how to be strong before you go. Teach me how to believe if you ever lie. Teach me how to control my tears before I start to cry. And please, teach me how to make you stay before you say goodbye.”
- It’s hard to live alone. It’s harder to choose someone to love. But the hardest part of loving is to admit that you’ve fallen for someone who can never be yours.
- When you fall in love, don’t give everything without leaving something for yourself… someday, somehow, it would be too late for you to realize that you’ve given all for the wrong one, without saving something for the right one…
- “I don’t run from you, I walk away slowly. And it kills me because you don’t care enough to stop me.”
- Life is ironic! Sometimes you keep on crying even if the guy neglects you, but you get surprised one day that just when you stopped crying and found someone new, that’s when he starts crying over losing you…
- Love that we can not have is the one that lasts the longest, hurts the deepest and feels the strongest.
- The worst feeling isn’t being lonely. It’s being forgotten by someone you could never forget.
- It hurts when the one you love left you and said, “You deserve someone better.” Then all you can say is… “Maybe I do.” But deep inside you’re crying coz you know you can’t find “BETTER” when you already found the “BEST.”
May 13, 2008 at 8:50 pm
Did you find these or did you come up with them?
#’s 3, 13, 19, 20 big time, 22 and 25.
May 14, 2008 at 12:09 am
Some of those are in fact from quotations sent to me via text messages.. But these messages really fits and I must say I can relate to all of these… And mostly of these are in fact came from me.. Things I long to say to that special someone.
Did you like it?
How I wish, the guy I love would love me back and will ask me to stay.
May 14, 2008 at 12:24 am
Oh #25 is a killer. I think I wrote a short (collected in “Lady” on my blog) that reverses that, sorta, where the guy chases after the girl, and she is furious with him but grabs hold of his hand anyhow.
Which makes me think, we can reverse all of these. We should.
May 14, 2008 at 1:31 am
Yes we can reverse all these. But sometimes, even if we try hard, it doesn’t go the way we want it.. Which makes me think now, did I really did all of these in the name of love?…
May 14, 2008 at 1:55 am
I love these!
I am a mid 40’s guy and it’s almost always role reversal for me. Humbly saying I have super great things going for me, treat women great, love to love and be loved, but hear “you deserve better”, or women just ignore me. Why? I am so lonely and so sick of it - jerks get the women, good guys are left lonely.
Almost want to wear a t-shirt around saying “The right guy is the one you ignore.”
May 14, 2008 at 2:02 am
Oh I remember a good friend of mine says that Mr. Nice doesn’t really exists. Sometimes, women tend to go to those bad boy type because they think they are ‘macho’. But for me they are not, specially when I see how they treat women badly.
Hmm, I still wonder if I would ever meet that Mr. Nice.. Like in my other entry, I am still waiting in the Bus stop.
May 14, 2008 at 2:34 am
I am waiting also (where do you live?).
May 14, 2008 at 2:38 am
I am from Philippines. Well, we just have to wait than settle down to the one we think isn’t the right one for us, aight?
May 14, 2008 at 2:47 am
Still waiting.
I’m in the USA. I heard women from there are great!
Most are married around here and the single ones are not that great. I also keep hearing “you’re too nice to me.” Too bad - got a big heart to give, who wants it?
May 14, 2008 at 2:56 am
Yes in fact a lot of American guys said that they like Filipina girls. Because we are faithful and a very family oriented which I guess is true.
I am currently in our client’s site. And everytime that I see Filipina’s walking around the hotel with their foreign boyfriend, brings back the pain I had when I went out with an American guy. He really broke my heart into pieces.
Hmm I have sent you an email to your yahoo email add. Seems like youre a great guy, I wonder why girls there are so blind to see that.
Hmm, can I have it ahaha… Just kidding.
May 14, 2008 at 3:00 am
Yea, a lot of American guys are jerks. I am sorry that happenned, but finding that out saved your future for the better!
May 14, 2008 at 3:04 am
Yes, true. At least I don’t have to settle with a person like him.
But how come you never find yours..?
Have you received my email?
May 14, 2008 at 3:11 am
I’m not super outgoing, trying to work on that…
You have mail!!
May 14, 2008 at 3:21 am
Yeah got it.. Thanks
You really look like a nice guy though. I wonder if those girls there are blind. hmmm…
I am sending you a reply now to your email
July 4, 2008 at 3:17 am
Yes. Going through all these now. It’s sad to realize one day that everything you ever loved and fought for was just going to be discarded by someone who does not know the worth of real love. And to struggle with forgiving because the Lord forgiveth us.
July 4, 2008 at 3:27 am
Yes it is true, but these experiences made us who we are now. Good or bad, happy or painful memories, they made us a better person. So keep on smiling